Friday, May 16, 2014

50 Things I learned my Freshman Year of College

Hello everyone!

Needless to say, it has been a very long and challenging school year. I had no idea what to expect out of college (regardless of what I saw on television, which, by the way, is very misleading. Don't fall victim to the dramatized programming, for you will be very disappointed. I learned that when I got to middle school and realized it was nothing like Ned's Declassified School Survival Guide. But, I digress). I will publicly admit that I miss high school. End of story. It was a difficult year knowing that the familiar faces I saw regularly at school and at youth group were not going to be around all the time, save winter, spring, and summer breaks. But seeing said friends during said breaks has only strengthened our friendships even more, leading to more adventurous "chill timez," as they are referred to by me and my boys Charlie and Carson. Before I proceed, below are some photos from my recent adventures with said friends.

Charlie photographing art on Dekalb Avenue

Photo by Charlie

Feminist street art on Forsyth Street by
Tatyana Fazlalizadeh

Intersection of Forsyth and Mitchell Street

Forsyth Street

Dekalb Avenue - Photo by Charlie

Ladybug :-)


More photographs can be found on my Instagram. Moving on...

After a grueling first year at college, I have learned the following:

  1. Commuting sucks.
  2. ...and by commuting, I mean MARTA. Though I'm sure driving to campus is almost as miserable.
  3. Prerequisite courses are annoying when you're as anxious as me to begin Major classes.
  4. I should have taken more AP classes so I wouldn't have take so many prerequisite classes. (Just kidding, I would have died if I took more AP classes. After AP Language and Composition, all I could think was "hell naw, I'm not doing that again!")
  5. Don't take the maximum credit hours (18). I didn't, but some of my friends did. It hurt to see them suffer. Just don't.
  6. Being a film major is awesome because we really don't need all that extra math. Have fun, engineering majors. :-)
  7. Just because you aren't sitting in class for 7 hours a day, doesn't mean you have all the free time in the world. Curse you, procrastination...
  8. Yoga pants are extraordinarily comfortable, even if they are not the most flattering. 
  9. Yoga pants are convenient for fools like me who take 8:00 a.m. classes...
  10. ...don't take 8:00 a.m. classes. You might have been able to do that in high school, but it's different in college. Just don't.
  11. Dorm life is awesome, because freedom.
  12. Naps are the most heavenly things besides microwavable pizza.
  13. You don't have to have a Ramen diet. Really. 
  14. Caffeine is helpful during finals week... but you don't need it if you don't procrastinate! We are all guilty of procrastinating. Time management is muy importante.
  15. Don't rush or "b.s." writing assignments. Seriously. You might have been able to get away with that in high school, but in college, this could make or break you in class. (This is more advice than experience... I personally rocked all my writing assignments.)
  16. Laundry on campus is terrible. Have fun doing a 2-hour task over the course of 5 hours.
  17. RateMyProfessors.com is such a useful resource when registering for classes.
  18. Don't wait until the last minute to register for classes. If possible, register as soon as you are allowed.
  19. College is expensive. 
  20. Study hard. (DUHHHHHHH)
  21. Go to class. Many teachers count attendance toward your final grade. Besides, you're paying for college-- get your money's worth!!! 
  22. The Freshman 15 is real. (I personally didn't gain 15 pounds, but I did gain like, 5.)
  23. Don't lose any scholarships you have. If this means not going to that party or not spending an evening watching your favorite show (*cough* Desperate Housewives *cough*) on Netflix, then do it. Studying is the ultimate key to success in college.
  24. Saving money is difficult. Making money is even more difficult, if you're jobless. (That was a no-brainer.)
  25. Paramore was being sarcastic in their song "Ain't it Fun [living in the real world]"... but it is, however, good living on your own.
  26. Dorm fire drills/alarms at 4 a.m. are the worst.
  27. Dorm fire drills/alarms at any hour are annoying. But instead of complaining, follow all instructions given by the authorities evacuating you. Safety first-- you never know if there may actually be a fire!
  28. Your student fees are probably going toward the fitness center, health clinic, and counseling center. Make use of them, even if you don't have any problems. Exercise is great, keeping your health in check regularly is great, and talking to someone when you're down is great. 
  29. If you have to take out student loans, do it. You are investing in your future.
  30. Don't wait until the last minute to get your textbooks.
  31. Rent your textbooks. It is cheaper than purchasing a book that you may not need again.
  32. Buy used if there aren't any rental textbooks available. That'll save you some money.
  33. Don't sell your textbooks back to the bookstore. Instead, try selling to another student who plans to take the class which requires said book. If you're desperate for cash, then go ahead and sell it to the book store. Just be wary. 
  34. Watching The Walking Dead is 10 times more fun when you watch it with your new college buddies.
  35. High school never ends. There will still be drama junkies who carry on the drama that we all thought we left behind in high school. Don't be one of those people.
  36. Not having class on Fridays is really awesome. Who doesn't love a 3-day weekend?
  37. Going to a college within 15 miles of where your alma mater is located will most definitely be the high school reunion you didn't sign up for.
  38. Walking to class in the rain isn't fun, especially if you go to school in a windy downtown area. 
  39. In the event of rain, have a rain coat and sturdy umbrella. If it's a cheap umbrella, that wind will blow it away... and might even take you with it.
  40. If you go to a college in a downtown area, avoid standing too close to the street when walking around campus during a rainstorm. You may get viciously splashed by a vehicle who drives through a puddle...
  41. Organization is key.
  42. Loud roommates are undesirable. 
  43. Dorm room walls and ceilings are not soundproof. 'Nuff said.
  44. People will smoke in their dorms regardless of the rules. Sigh. Nothing like a dorm hallway reeking of tobacco, or in some cases, marijuana... *shakes head disapprovingly*
  45. Snow days + dorm life = fun fun fun fun fun
  46. If you want to make friends, you have to get involved somehow. Whether it's saying hello to someone you pass regularly on the way to class, joining the theatre, or engaging in intramural sports teams. You'll find someone similar to you and thus form new bonds. 
  47. If you need help, just ask.
  48. USE YOUR RESOURCES!
  49. Growing up is difficult, but definitely something we need to learn to do. There's a time and a place to be a kid, but we must know how to conduct ourselves in certain settings.
  50. Life goes on. Don't sweat the small stuff. Work hard. Stay strong. You've got this!

Here's to another 3+ years! I am currently taking a May-mester class which ends the first week of June, but I am otherwise on summer break! Here's to long summer nights by the pool, cruising with friends, blowing our money on delivery pizza, and sleeping in... unless, of course, you have a job, in which case you may have to kiss sleeping in "goodbye" and get to bed early (yeah, right). Happy almost summer!

Until next time,


Kelsey

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Good stuff coming to you soon-- but first, an update!

Well, hello there!

It has been over a month since I last posted. My apologies. I'm not going to produce a grocery list of excuses, but rather, I had other things to get done besides blog. But hey, here I am now with loads to share with you!

First off, let me just announce that I have finished my first year of college! It has been a rollercoaster of a year, but it finally ended. I will be spending the next month taking a May-mester class which will end in early June, so technically I am not completely on summer break. 

Last time I blogged was during my spring break where I recalled a spring memory. We have got a little over a month left of spring before we transition into summer. I'm just ready for some pool time! 

Since spring break, things have been very eventful. Before I share the details with you, I am leaving these fun photos from spring break here for you to see. I got to hang out with Jackson, Anna, and Carson. 



Posing with Carson - Photo by Anna

Posing with Jackson and Carson - Photo by Anna

Aren't they adorable? Anna & Jackson

A week later, I attended Shrek the Musical at my old high school. Let me just say, that was the best performance I have ever seen at my high school, and it is sad that the show wasn't put on while I was still in school! It was spectacular. The acting, the set... everything. Kudos to the wonderful cast and crew for presenting a hilarious show!

Took a selfie with Seth, a.k.a. Shrek!

A couple weeks after spring break, Panic! at the Disco played a concert at my college! Needless to say, I was very thrilled, considering what happened at the last show where the floor broke at the Tabernacle

The concert wasn't to begin until 7 p.m., but since they were playing at my college, this was a wonderful opportunity to possibly meet the band! My friend saw them a couple nights before at another college, and had the pleasure of meeting the band, so we kept in touch all morning until I got there to keep tabs on what the band was doing. Sadly, after waiting many long hours, we never got to see Panic! at the Disco before the show. On the plus side, I got a spot on the barricade with friends, and met some new people! The show opened with two rappers from GSU, and then Panic! at the Disco took the stage. It was awesome. It was not a full length show; just shy of an hour. It did, however, make up for the two-song show I saw in February. After P!ATD played, rapper B.o.B. performed, with a guest appearance from rapper T.I. I would say it was a pretty good night. 


Brendon Urie, lead singer of
Panic! at the Disco

B.o.B.

T.I. making a guest appearance.

The following Wednesday, I went to a Braves game which was a lot of fun. I went with some of my new friends whom I've gotten to know since February. It was got intense toward the last couple innings of the game, where the Braves had been in the lead by 4 runs... and the New York Mets caught up. Luckily after changing pitchers, the Braves saved the game from overtime and we won. 

A few days after the game, over the weekend, I was at home visiting. Late that Saturday night, there was a tragedy in my town. A house caught fire down the road from me, killing two, and one badly burned. The father and son survived; the mother and daughter did not. I had the pleasure of knowing the little girl from many summers at the pool. I am still in disbelief that it happened. It is amazing how my small town has come together in support of this family, and I am happy to know that there have been generous donors contributing to this family's recovery through donations on GoFundMe. If you would like to make a donation to help the family, please visit this link.

Also during that weekend, I began to experience crippling pain in my calf muscles, nearly enabling me to walk. It was bad timing too, seeing as how I had a crew position in my college's production of Shakespeare's A Midsummer Night's Dream. I saw a doctor about the leg pain as soon as I returned to campus, only to be told there was a slight chance I had blood clots. Needless to say, that frightened me. The doctor ordered bed rest until the swelling and pain dissipated, and to keep ice on my calves whilst staying in bed. It was a difficult few days, but I was asked to return to the doctor on two days after my initial visit. I had to see another doctor, because the one I saw wasn't in. This new doctor examined me again, only to conclude that I definitely had tendonitis, and she rolled her eyes at my near-misdiagnosis. With a sigh of relief and an anti-inflammatory prescription, I was able to carry on. I struggled that week to catch up on missed work all while preparing for the shows that week. I can't tell you how happy I was for Saturday to arrive, where I celebrated my 19th birthday with good company. 

My birthday was on Easter, so I decided to celebrate a day early so I could have my friends around. A few came back home for Easter and also attended my celebration, which was exciting. We went to Johnny Rockets for dinner, where we heard good music and shared many laughs. The fun continued when we all drove back to my house for cupcakes, photos, other junk food, and more laughs. I think we smashed more cupcakes in each others' faces than we did eat them. I couldn't have asked for a better birthday. 


The cupcakes

The ladies!... and Andrew photobombing over to the left.

About to get smacked in the face with another cupcake!

The aftermath... photo by Marissa


After a late night, I woke up early anyway to attend a beautiful church service. We enjoyed punch on the lawn after service and took pictures with friends by the cross full of flowers. It turned out to be a fabulous weekend. 

Me posing with Matt & Nat

When I returned to school on Monday, I stopped by the Student Center after class to get in line to meet two cast members from the television show New Girl-- Jake Johnson (Nick) and Damon Wayans Jr. (Coach). It was pretty awesome. 

Jake Johnson and Damon Wayans Jr.

As many of you know, April is usually the month of prom for many high schools, so I had the pleasure of photographing two of my best friends before they went off for a fun night. Just look at that adorable couple! (Pictures below.)

Jackson and Anna


After another stressful week of shows, A Midsummer Night's Dream concluded and we did a set strike. We really tore up the set, and it took us three hours to get it all cleaned up. The next day I sat in a speaker series featuring Jack Hanna, from Animal Planet. I received a an autographed photo from him and even got to pose in a photo of him which I will soon receive from my school. I am really enjoying these meet and greet opportunities my school has offered to students. More items may be crossed off my bucket list!

It was a hard week of finals, but I made it and now I am taking in this free week as best as I can before I start class again... and once my May-mester class is over, I begin working at a summer camp. It is going to be a long, busy summer, but I will find time for fun and taking care of me. 

When finals ended, I got to get away to North Carolina for a long weekend for my cousin's wedding. It was a lovely wedding and a lot of fun. Check out some highlights through the pictures below. 

Me posing with my cousins and brother. Photo by Ulyana

Cousins and brother... and yes, me in color.
Shocker, I know.

The wedding cake!

Posing with the bride.

Posing with the groom.

My cousins, posing for an impromptu photoshoot.

Seeing the bride and groom off after the wedding.


That's all I really have to update-- I have a couple of good posts in the works! 
Until next time,


Kelsey